Heal My Heart

I am being in a relationship with a lady since year, 2003. after some years I proposed marriage to her, in year 2006 I, in company of my family reps. went to see her father and did the necessary things as per the first step of getting to know each families, initially the wedding was to hold in year, 2007 June to be precise. Then in January, 2007 I was retrenched from work alongside with her because we are both Police officers. Later in year, 2008 January I was re-instated and in July same year she was also re-instated. Then the marriage thing came back on track, putting some preps. into place, all this while we have been communicating and also seeing each other, though we are not in the same state of service because I was later transferred from the state we met and spent most of our time together, in July, 2009. Meanwhile every arrangement is on the going till the worst happen in the month of March, 2010. She called me to inform that a Soldier guy is interested in her hand in marriage, I was shocked, I asked whether she is into any relationship with the guy, she said no,

Angry and outta contact

Hello, my name is Brad Shah. I have a problem with my friend. Actually, she is now far from me. We know each other since two years. The relation started just unknowingly. I love her so much and as far as I know she loved me a lot that no other girl can love. She is so innocent and cute. But as the time passed, we had a communication gap. Sometimes she used to send me sms but by mistake since the sms used to have no meaning related. I use to call her so many times and write her text 100 times. Sometimes I use to think I better forget her. But I never could do that. I always remember the talk we use to have. One day I just left my home country for further study. I was thinking to leave my country without telling her but I couldn't do that. So I told her one day before leaving my home. That day, she was asking me what I would do if she got married to the next person and I was silent hearing that question.

Learning to Love

Hi, my name is Desiree Garza I’m 15 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months and 3 days today. Last night we was arguing and he told me he doesn’t want to be with me and I don’t understand why but I think I pushed him to much because I kept asking him on the phone if he wants to still be with me and he kept telling me he was tired and it made me feel like if he was avoiding my question and I started getting mad and I told him if you don’t want to be with me then man up and tell me but I think I pushed him to much because then he said what you know, "No, I don’t! Is that what you want to hear?" and then he hung up on me and when I tried calling back he didn’t want to answer so I went to sleep and when I woke up for school I tried to call him but he was already gone but I know where he goes after school should I go over there and talk to him face to face or just let time work its magic? But if I do that I’m worried I might give him too much time and I don’t want to let him go. He is the first boy I have ever been with and I’m not used to this please I need help what do I do? Should I go over there after school? Or should I call him? Or should I wait and see if he calls me? And if he doesn’t how can I let him go? I don’t know what to do help me I’m so confused.

Victim of Break-up

I’m working in abroad since 1 yr...I am 19, guy, I love a girl so much that I see everything in her. But our family is not accepting us....still this is our 3 yrs running...when I was in Nepal we used to sleep together so I think, I don’t have to say how close we are, but this year she asked me breakup. I don’t get anything. How come this happen n why this is happenning!!!!! But after 2 days I call her n just let her go...she told me she want to concentrate in her study n I even asked her “do u have another bf?” but she said I have no one...now will u plz tell me why she is doing this???? What could b the reason that she is doing this to me??? Even I already let her go, I am still waiting for her to come back m I doing right or not?? thx.....