Frantic Phone Calls

Hi! I am Hardik and mujhe ek Twinkle naam ki ladki se pyarr ho gaya.... humara love thoda-bahot chala but aaj subah ek Nitin naam ke ladke ka mujhe call aaya usne mujhe kaha ki "Twinkle ke saath mere us type ke relation reh chuka hain...tum chaho to kisi ko bhi puchlo..." Mein confuse ho gaya, meine Twinkle se pucha to usne mujhe kaha yeh sab galat hain... mere najdiki rishtedaaro ne bhi mujhe kaha yeh ladki theek nahi hain... Ab mein kya karu kuch samajh nahi aata...Please please please help me...please yaaro…... My E-Mail Id is *********@gmail.com Thank You...

Infidelity- Sex with another girl.

I had love-arrange marriage with my 3 yrs long relation bf. I love him so much and so does he. We live together now but when he was alone here he had sex with a girl. He intentionally did that. Later on I knew this otherwise, I would not have married him. He had relation with that girl for 2 months, had sex 17 times with and without condom. Shall I leave him? Shall I stay with him thinking that he really loves me? Shall I live in insecurities? May be, in future also... I had always been in this problem. No matter what my man does but he has to sleep with me only. But he did not care and made this blunder. “Jati gare pani birsinai sakdina. 104 degree jworo aaune gari kute, 4 palta. Jati kute pani thapi rakhchha”, He tells, "I did mistake so I had to face this". I love him so much, can’t live without him. He only does what I like, “farkera jawaf pani laudaina”. I shout at him all the time, relate that matter in everything. What shall I do to make my life happy? He is my first and last love and I did not have physical relation. I can’t think of betraying him. Is there any medicine to forget that matter? He really loves me and says that was a blunder ‘cause I was not with him and situation made him do so. If it was an accident, I would have forgiven but it’s not only once. Help me!!! Give me the solution.

Sex before Marriage- Yes/ No?

I am a girl, 18. I’m in a relationship for about 5-6 years. He is a year older than me. His family is aware of our relationship and most of his family members accept me. We totally trust each other. We are ready to do anything for each other. Recently my friend had sex with her boyfriend. She talks about it all the time, how this has taken their relationship to next level. They are more into each other. And hearing all that I also want to take my relationship to next level. I know I will marry him one day, after our education, of course. But is it okay if I have sex with him now??? Or should I ignore this feeling and never think about it until we get married.