Long Distance + Third Girl !!!

Hi, my name is Anna, 25 years old. I was in love with a guy whom I met in university. We were together for 6 months, but after graduation he went to other country for work, I saw him only few times in a year. It’s been, now 2 years, and it is very difficult to communicate with him because he is very busy and always travels between countries and sometimes he hasn't any tool to communicate with me. One time he told me about a girl, he knew from the company he worked in, and that she is very kind and cute, and when he was sick she stayed with him all the night. I was very jealous and the fight began. After that he told me that she wanted to change her company and he was very upset, then he didn't talk to me, even if I call him he is unavailable, so I tried not to call him, however, he returned my call but I didn’t answer him, it has already been 2 months now, but in my birthday he sent me his wishes, so I called him and we talked just for 3-4 minutes.

Learning to Love

Hi, my name is Desiree Garza I’m 15 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months and 3 days today. Last night we was arguing and he told me he doesn’t want to be with me and I don’t understand why but I think I pushed him to much because I kept asking him on the phone if he wants to still be with me and he kept telling me he was tired and it made me feel like if he was avoiding my question and I started getting mad and I told him if you don’t want to be with me then man up and tell me but I think I pushed him to much because then he said what you know, "No, I don’t! Is that what you want to hear?" and then he hung up on me and when I tried calling back he didn’t want to answer so I went to sleep and when I woke up for school I tried to call him but he was already gone but I know where he goes after school should I go over there and talk to him face to face or just let time work its magic? But if I do that I’m worried I might give him too much time and I don’t want to let him go. He is the first boy I have ever been with and I’m not used to this please I need help what do I do? Should I go over there after school? Or should I call him? Or should I wait and see if he calls me? And if he doesn’t how can I let him go? I don’t know what to do help me I’m so confused.